Toni Tone and Taiwo: The Reason Why Men AVOID Confident Women
Toni Tone and Taiwo Ogebule share the transformative journey that has redefined their approach to love and relationships.Through overcoming personal challenges, cultural pressures, and managing a long-distance romance, they reveal how a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and deep emotional connection has kept their bond strong.
Together, they challenge conventional narratives around attachment, masculinity, and "struggle love," showing how self-discovery and resilience create a partnership that goes beyond expectations.
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00:00 Introduction to the Episode
03:04 Dating Culture Differences: USA vs. UK
05:15 Toni and Taiwo’s Relationship Histories
06:18 How Relationships Can Impact Attachment Styles
11:06 How Toni and Taiwo Met: Their Love Story
16:22 Toni’s Viral Tweet After Their First Call
16:53 Understanding Demisexuality: What Does It Mean?
18:23 Tips for Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship
20:46 Managing Conflict Across Borders: Toni and Taiwo’s Approach
25:49 The Biggest Misconceptions About Our Relationship
29:51 What Makes a “Good Man” in Modern Dating?
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33:25 What Is Gut Instinct and Why It’s Important in Love
35:37 Breaking Down “Struggle Love” and Its Impact
38:51 Can a Strong Woman Really Intimidate Men?
49:00 Our Most Memorable Conversations Together
54:24 Key Takeaways from Paul
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We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
When someone says to you 'we need to talk', how does that make you feel?
The hardest conversations to have are also the most important. Paul C Brunson, the world’s most influential matchmaker and TV star, brings his insightful commentary on how to create and sustain successful relationships through vulnerability, connection and understanding.
From weekly conversations with industry experts and familiar faces, Paul promises to support your personal growth, provide practical insights, and deliver actionable advice that will add value to your relationships.
Ready to deepen those connections? Then you’re in the right place.
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- No. of episodes: 36
- Latest episode: 2025-04-29
- Society & Culture Leisure Relationships
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