028. Stop letting people walk all over you

028. Stop letting people walk all over you

Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay · 2025-06-16

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In this episode, we’re calling out the patterns that so many women are stuck in! Saying yes when they want to say no, bending over backwards to keep the peace, and constantly putting everyone else’s comfort above their own. Sound familiar?

You’re not a doormat, you’ve just been trained to be one.

We dive deep into:

Why people-pleasing isn’t kindness - it’s self-abandonmentHow to spot the subtle ways you’re betraying yourselfThe hidden cost of never setting boundariesWhy “being nice” is keeping you stuck, small, and resentfulHow to start choosing yourself without guilt

If you’re tired of shrinking yourself to make other people comfortable, this episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need to be louder. You don’t need to be mean. You just need to start respecting yourself enough to hold the damn line.

Because when you stop letting people walk all over you, you start walking in your power.

Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay

Welcome to "Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay" – the podcast where you get the truth you need to hear, without the sugar-coating. Life can be messy, but we hold the power to shape our emotions, our mindset, and the seasons we go through. Each week, Lucy dives deep into topics like insecurity, jealousy, and self-doubt, sharing her raw, real experiences of transformation from fear and doubt to confidence and clarity. This isn’t about quick fixes or fluff – it’s about embracing the hard truths, owning your choices, and taking control of your life. If you’re ready to ditch the excuses, confront what’s holding you back, and finally step into your worth, this podcast is your no-BS guide to doing just that. Buckle up for some tough love – it’s time to transform. 

Tune in every week and take charge of your life.

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