S9 E19: Pregnancy After Stillbirth: Alicia on Grief, Faith and Fighting for Black Maternal Care
In this heartfelt episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, we welcome Alicia — a passionate baby loss advocate, mother of three living children, and a woman who has bravely walked through unimaginable grief. Alicia shares her raw, deeply personal journey of miscarriage, stillbirth, pregnancy after loss, and the traumatic gaps in maternity care, particularly for Black women in the UK.
Topics Covered in This Episode:
Alicia’s first devastating stillbirth at nearly 5 months pregnant
The emotional trauma of grieving in a non-soundproofed maternity ward
Navigating a new pregnancy just weeks after loss
Living with intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy (ICP) and high-risk pregnancies
The emotional toll of recurrent miscarriage, including vanishing twin syndrome
Faith, mental health, and finding purpose after loss
Advocating for bereavement care reform and Black maternal health
Creating DOTE Bags — care packages for parents grieving baby loss
Why fathers and partners deserve more recognition and support in baby loss experiences
Alicia courageously opens up about her experience as a Black mother navigating the UK maternity system — including shocking disparities, dismissed symptoms, and the lack of empathy she faced following multiple losses. She explains why she is now petitioning for improved bereavement care, including soundproofed hospital spaces for grieving families and better mental health support.
She also discusses her project, The DOTE Bag Initiative, providing self-care essentials and emotional comfort to parents experiencing miscarriage or stillbirth, especially around sensitive times like Father’s Day.
About The Worst Girl Gang Ever
The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest, and emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility, and baby loss. Expect raw conversations about unspoken experiences, hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham. This show aims to break the silence and open dialogue around miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo—let’s change the narrative for future generations.
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The Worst Girl Gang Ever
The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility and baby loss, expect honest conversations about unspoken experiences. Hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham, this show is a chance to break the silence and really open up the dialogue around the topic of miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo - let's ditch that for our children; the ones that will come, the ones that are and the ones that never came to be..
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