#41 What To Do When Your Husband Feels Like a Roommate

Hi, Fam! · 2025-07-08

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Remember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other?

Now you're lucky if you make eye contact over the dinner dishes.

You've gone from lovers to logistics managers, and frankly, you're both exhausted.

So you do what everyone tells you to do: you talk about it. You go to therapy. You communicate your feelings. You hash out every grievance, every unmet need, every way he's disappointing you.

And somehow... things get worse.

Here's the brutal truth no one wants to admit: You're talking your marriage to death.

While you're sitting in therapy sessions dissecting every problem, the real issue is dying a slow death. And it's not what your therapist thinks it is.

In this episode, I'm exposing the biggest lie about fixing marriages—and revealing what actually brings back the spark you're desperately missing. And this isn't about communication skills or conflict resolution. It's about something much more primal that creates the bond you're craving.

Warning: This approach goes against everything you've been told about "working on your relationship." But if you're tired of analyzing your marriage to death and ready to feel something again, this changes everything.

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