Supporting Addicted Loved Ones with Counsellor Rainbow

Summary:

In this powerful episode, Rainbow Glitter Shiva opens up about her deeply personal journey through addiction—both her own and that of her husband, who faced significant mental health and substance use challenges. She candidly discusses the emotional toll on families and the urgent need for more integrated and compassionate support systems.

Rainbow highlights the disconnection between the mental health and addiction fields, stressing how the failure to recognise their interconnected nature often leads to ineffective treatment. Drawing from her lived experience, she created the "Families Unite" program, which supports families impacted by addiction through education around communication, enabling, co-dependency, and the critical need for personal change within the family unit.

The conversation underscores the importance of addressing trauma, emotional wounds, and generational patterns—not just the addiction itself—for lasting healing. Ryan and Rainbow explore the barriers that prevent families from seeking support, including stigma, lack of access, and emotional illiteracy.

Rainbow also shares the symbolic transformation behind her name change, representing a rebirth after profound personal loss and growth.

Key Insights:

Addiction and mental health issues are often treated in isolation—yet are deeply connected.

Family dynamics, especially enabling and co-dependency, play a vital role in the cycle of addiction.

There's a lack of accessible, trauma-informed, and family-focused support services.

Emotional education, starting from a young age, can help break generational patterns.

Healing is possible through community, compassion, and empowerment.

Notable Quotes:

"There must be a middle ground. Yet he was a bit far gone and he wasn't quite seeing the middle ground, and that dissolved in a big blaze of glory."
"I learned how to read people, how to communicate with them properly. How to run groups. I love running groups."
"It's more the mums, but they get a lot of guilt. And they get a lot of shame. And it's like, what did I do wrong? And they can blame themselves as well."
"Addiction starts with pain and ends with pain – that's an Eckhart Tolle quote, by the way."
"Blame is a mechanism that will keep us stuck in whatever we're in."

Connect with Rainbow Glitter Shiva:

🌐 Website: https://walkandtalkwithrainbow.com.au
📘 Facebook: Rainbow Glitter Shiva on Facebook

Supporting Addicted Loved Ones with Counsellor Rainbow

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