Paul Brunson: Women Need To Lower Their Standards! If They Have These 3 Traits, Never Let Them Go! If You Get Sick, There’s A 624% Chance He’ll Leave!

From dating disaster to 'I do', Paul Brunson cracks the rules of love and reveals the do’s and don’ts for an unbreakable relationship

Paul Brunson is a world-renowned relationship expert, entrepreneur, and host of the number 1 dating and relationships advice show, ‘We Need To Talk’. He is the author of books such as, ‘Find Love: How to navigate modern love and discover the right partner for you’ and ‘Keep Love: 21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship’.

In this conversation, Paul and Steven discuss topics such as, the top 3 signs of a successful relationship, the dangers of serial dating, why women are attracted to taller men, and the hidden benefits of doubting your relationship.

00:00 Intro
02:25 Who Is Paul C Brunson?
04:44 How Has Love Evolved Since You Started This?
07:47 Why Are People Struggling to Find Love?
11:46 The Danger of Comparison
16:26 Racism Within Dating
20:29 Are Arranged Marriages More Successful?
24:26 Your Friends Usually Know If You're With the Right Person
27:05 We Have to Lower Our Expectations of Our Partners
29:58 We Have Countless Options in Today’s Society
33:54 The Difference Between Men & Women When the Other Gets Sick
39:36 Satisfaction in Marriage Is the Most Important Thing
43:06 Should We Be Talking About Our Relationships?
46:06 We Will Be Attracted to Other People, and That’s OK
51:46 Women Are Better at Maintaining Their Connections Than Men
55:15 Should We Be Getting Married?
58:45 Marriages Should Be Harder to Get Into
01:09:19 What Predicts a Successful Marriage?
01:10:21 What Qualities Should I Look for in a Partner?
01:13:50 The Demand Doesn’t Reflect What’s in the Dating Market
01:28:21 Are People With Symmetrical Features More Attractive?
01:30:03 How Self-Esteem Plays a Huge Role in Partner Choices
01:34:28 Advice for People With Low Self-Esteem Who Base Relationships on Superficial Traits
01:36:57 Paul Brunson’s Experience With IVF
01:41:35 Infertility Issues & Relationship Problems
01:44:41 What Can a Man Do to Find and Keep a Partner?
01:47:12 Relationship Myths
01:52:22 Desire Management
01:56:31 Anxious Attachment Style Going for Avoidant Partners
02:06:43 The Importance of Conflict Resolution
02:10:29 You Should Say Sorry More Often
02:19:03 Should You Go to Bed Angry at Your Partner?
02:22:29 Is Cheating the End of the Relationship?
02:29:09 Discipline in Relationships
02:31:12 When Did You Discover Your Own Power?

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