Consensual non-consent (CNC) - The most contradictory and dangerous kink?

Crude · 2025-03-18

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Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat to special guest Skadi to talk about all things CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). CNC will either send shivers down your spine or your genitals.

All the current research says that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will. A huge for 9% to 17% of women, these fantasies are a frequent or favourite fantasy experience. CNC or rape fantasies are mainstream fantasy, that nobody talks about in mainstream media.

Why shouldn't we say rape or ravage fantasy?

What is active surrender?

What's a crime kink?

*What we were consuming*

[Definition] What Is Consensual Non-Consent? The Kink Shrouded in Fear and Misconception (Vice)

[Book] Submit by Sonnet (2024)

[Research] Women's Erotic Rape Fantasies: An Evaluation of Theory and Research

[Book] Come as you Are (2021)

[Book/Film] Gerald's Game (1992/2017)

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Join CRUDE where we mercilessly deconstruct love, s3x, bodies, and relationships using our own experiences and the thoughts of others. Slutty academics Frank and Misty are joined in Berlin by Elle, an activist, and avid partygoer Effie based in London.

We’ll delve into topics intrinsic to modern relationships, sexual self-awareness, and the world of kink in liberal cities in the 21st century. The hosts are currently active and immersed in sex-positive scenes across Europe, meaning they date and meet a range of fizzing and wonderful people. The increasing influence of kink on mainstream attitudes towards sex and relationships means CRUDE's exploration provides listeners with an essential and entertaining examination of their own desires, passions, and the situationships that ensue.

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