When It’s Time to Quit: The Neuroscience of Letting Go and Moving On

When It’s Time to Quit: The Neuroscience of Letting Go and Moving On

The Dr. Leaf Show · 2025-06-18
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😩 Feeling stuck in something that used to work—but now just drains you?

This episode is for the moment you realize: “I can’t keep doing this.”

Dr. Caroline Leaf breaks down the brain science behind why it’s so hard to let go—and how to finally move on with clarity, intention, and real psychological tools. Whether it’s a job, a relationship, a routine, or even an identity, we explore what your brain, mind, and body are really telling you… and how to start over without fear or guilt.


🔬 In this episode:

Why your amygdala resists change (and how to work with it)

The psychoneurobiology of letting go and nervous system safety

What co-regulation and unprocessed stress signals really mean

Why goal disengagement isn’t failure—it’s intelligent redirection

How to use intentional micro-steps to retrain your brain and rebuild resilience


🧠 Backed by recent studies in neuroscience and psychology, Dr. Leaf offers a practical, research-based guide to starting fresh, grounded in compassion—not hustle.


🎬 Chapters include:

00:00 Introduction: The Power of Starting Over

00:36 Understanding the Brain-Mind Connection

02:31 The Science of Neuroplasticity

03:40 Welcome to the Dr. Leaf Show

04:48 Recognizing When It's Time to Change

11:29 The Concept of Adaptive Goal Disengagement

15:27 Practical Steps for Intentional Change

18:15 The Importance of Small Changes

23:19 Conclusion: Embracing New Beginnings


If you’re at a crossroads or silently burning out, this episode is your permission slip to reset.


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The Dr. Leaf Show

Hi! I’m Dr. Caroline Leaf. I’m a cognitive neuroscientist, author, & mental health expert. Whether you are struggling in your personal life or simply want to learn how to understand and use your mind to live your best life, this podcast will provide you with practical & scientific tips and tools to help you take back control over your mental, emotional, and physical health. Visit: https://drleaf.com*DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult with your personal physician if you have any personal medical questions.

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