Mastering the Art of Dating
Dating today feels like emotional gymnastics — and no one knows that better than Talia, a dating expert and podcast host who went on 150 dates in one year. In this episode, I sit down with Talia to unpack what she learned, how she stayed grounded, and why modern dating can be so mentally exhausting.
We talk about:
The neuroscience of dating and attachment stylesHow to build resilience after rejectionDating app burnoutWhat “slow burn chemistry” actually meansThe role of neuroplasticity in healing unhealthy patternsWhy self-compassion might be your strongest dating toolTalia also shares daily practices, mindset shifts, and practical advice that will help anyone — whether you’re new to dating, starting over, or just tired of the same dead-end patterns.
This conversation will change how you think about dating, love, and your brain.
📌 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:30 Talia's Journey to Becoming a Dating Expert
01:12 Scientific Approach to Dating
01:51 Mental Resilience and Podcast Impact
03:20 Breaking Free from Dating Patterns
05:44 Intentional Thinking and Practical Steps
09:55 Overcoming Overthinking in Dating
11:30 Identifying Personal Needs vs. Fear-Based Desires
14:32 Focusing on Personal Growth
15:01 Handling Rejection in Dating
16:22 Using Dating Apps Intentionally
18:10 The Concept of Slow Burn Chemistry
19:33 Aligning Dating Choices with Core Values
20:31 Self-Compassion in the Dating Journey
23:57 Reentering the Dating Scene with Confidence
25:11 Debunking Dating Myths
25:40 Daily Practices for Emotional Wellbeing
26:05 Defining a Successful Relationship
26:41 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
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The Dr. Leaf Show
Hi! I’m Dr. Caroline Leaf. I’m a cognitive neuroscientist, author, & mental health expert. Whether you are struggling in your personal life or simply want to learn how to understand and use your mind to live your best life, this podcast will provide you with practical & scientific tips and tools to help you take back control over your mental, emotional, and physical health. Visit: https://drleaf.com*DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult with your personal physician if you have any personal medical questions.Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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