Gillian Anderson: Why Talking About Sex Changed My Life & The Real Power Of Fantasy!
In this episode of Begin Again, award-winning actress, author, and advocate Gillian Anderson opens up about the personal journey behind her public persona. Best known for her iconic roles in The X-Files, The Fall, and Sex Education, Gillian shares how embracing sexuality, owning her fantasies, and confronting shame transformed not only her relationships—but her entire sense of self.
Through honest and intimate conversation, Gillian explores how therapy helped her navigate anxiety from a young age, why women still feel ashamed of desire, and what it really means to speak up about what you want—in bed and in life.
This episode is a powerful exploration of female empowerment, sexual honesty, and emotional courage. Whether you're curious about how to talk about desire, or simply want to understand your own agency more deeply, Gillian's story is raw, relatable, and deeply inspiring.
Packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and breakthrough moments, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone interested in sexual confidence, mental health, and reclaiming your power.
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(00:00) Intro
(01:09) Davina Intro
(02:02) Intro & Being a Role Model to Women
(05:47) Gillian's Youth and Cultural Identification
(09:33) Therapy at 14 after Mental Health Struggles
(12:28) Gillian's Big Break at 24
(16:59) Taking Risks in Her Career
(19:50) Family Life and Career Balance
(21:46) Becoming Stella in 'The Fall' and Thatcher in 'The Crown'
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(27:40) Ancient and Brave Ad
(29:19) New Audiences and Playing Jean in 'Sex Eduaction'
(36:10) Sexual Assault and Recent Discourse
(40:44) Want' and How it Came About
(47:35) Fantasies, Shame and Satisfaction
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Begin Again with Davina McCall
This show is dedicated to empowering people to embrace midlife as their most transformative era yet. Davina’s guests will share stories of growth and rediscovery, letting you in on their own life journeys - many of which have challenged outdated narratives and ideas. Whether it's through expert insights, candid discussions, or real-life inspiration, Begin Again will be a supportive community for everyone to explore the revitalising second act of life. Davina wants everyone to know that midlife is not the start of the end; instead, it's the perfect opportunity and time to Begin Again.
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- No. of episodes: 41
- Latest episode: 2025-07-17
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